Raise a child who trusts themselves, loves learning, and is ready for a rapidly changing world!
Questioning school?
Already homeschooling or unschooling?
Join our FREE community for parents creating a different path for their children — without constantly wondering whether they’re getting it right.
You’re here because you want something different for your child.
More curiosity, freedom, confidence, opportunity, and joy.
But choosing a different path can bring up questions you never expected. Maybe…
You left school, but you still hear its voice in your head.
Your child spends hours gaming, watching videos, making things, or playing — and you can’t always see the learning.
You don’t want to pressure them, but you’re afraid they’ll fall behind.
You keep wondering when to step in, when to wait, and when something really needs to change.
Your partner isn’t fully on board, or other people’s opinions keep shaking your confidence.
You know how you want to parent, but during conflict, you react in ways that don’t feel like you.
You’ve read all the advice, but you’re still questioning yourself.
Un-Skool helps you understand what’s actually happening with your child and family. You’ll learn to recognize learning beyond school, stay connected through hard moments, and make confident choices based on what your family needs — not fear, pressure, or someone else’s rules.
So you can spend less time wondering whether you’re getting it wrong and more time enjoying your child and the family life you’re creating.
Join Un-Skool For FREE and Get Instant Access To:
YOUR JOURNEY OUTSIDE SCHOOL
A place to begin whether school has stopped working for your child or your family is choosing not to enter it. Find the path that fits where you are and explore what learning outside school can actually look like.
IS THIS UNSCHOOLING
OR JUST CHAOS?
For the moments when freedom starts to feel suspiciously like doing nothing. Learn to recognize the self-directed learning that may already be happening in everyday life.
Explore resources about learning, relationships, parenting, power, and life outside conventional schooling.
FREE MASTERCLASSES
Connect with parents who are questioning many of the same things and finding what works for their actual families.
THE UN-SKOOL COMMUNITY
Un-Skool is a place to…
✓ Find your footing when you’re questioning school or beginning life outside it.
✓ Understand how children learn when learning doesn’t look like school.
✓ Recognize the learning already happening in everyday life.
✓ Question what you’ve inherited about learning, parenting, and success.
✓ Connect with other parents choosing a different path.
Want ongoing community support?
For $27/month, you can access the Parenting Archetype Journey, join our monthly live community calls, and watch the growing library of call replays.
Ready to go deeper?
Un-Skool is also home to three deeper programs:
BUILD helps you trust your child’s learning and path.
GROUND helps you create more connection, navigate conflict, and repair when things go sideways.
DISCERN helps you embody your values, make choices you trust, and intentionally build your family culture.
These aren’t steps you have to complete in order. Choose the support that fits what your family needs right now.
BUILD
Trust your child’s learning and path.
You chose a different path, but school may still be the measuring stick in your head.
Is my child learning enough? Should I be doing more? What if there are gaps? Am I preparing them for the future?
BUILD helps you understand how learning happens, recognize it when it doesn’t look like school, and support your child without constantly needing school-shaped proof that it’s working.
YOU GET:
FREEDOM TO LEARN
Understand how children learn through curiosity, autonomy, relationships, play, and real life.
Deschooling Support Kit
Recognize the school-conditioned fears and expectations that can follow you home.
6 Keys for Building Relationships with Kids
Build the kind of relationship your child carries with them long after childhood ends.
+ SIX MONTHS OF COMMUNITY SUPPORT
Join six monthly live community calls to connect, ask questions, reflect, and think through what’s coming up for your family. Replays are included.
BOOK A FREE CONNECTION CALL
Tell us what your family is navigating, and we’ll help you decide whether BUILD, GROUND, or DISCERN is the best fit — without pressure.
GROUND Create more connection, navigate conflict, and repair when things go sideways.
You may know how you want to relate to your child. Then there’s resistance, a hard no, sibling conflict, or an overwhelming moment — and suddenly you’re reacting in ways that don’t reflect what you believe.
Ground helps you move from understanding your values to living them. You’ll learn and practice ways to communicate, navigate conflict and consent, and reconnect after hard moments.
YOU GET:
COMMUNICATION THAT TRANSFORMS RELATIONSHIPS
Communicate in ways that create more understanding, emotional safety, and connection — especially when needs collide.
The Chaos Map
Understand what’s happening when things go sideways and find more possibilities for response and repair.
Supporting Siblings Through Conflict
Respond to sibling conflict without automatically blaming, taking sides, or forcing a resolution.
Everyday Consent
Turn everyday struggles into opportunities for more collaboration and connection.
The Embodiment Practice Labs & Replays
Access six live practice sessions, and turn what you understand intellectually into something you can actually access and live when things get hard with your child.
+ SIX MONTHS OF COMMUNITY SUPPORT
Join six monthly live community calls to connect, ask questions, reflect, and think through what’s coming up for your family. Replays are included.
DISCERN Embody your values, make choices you trust, and intentionally build your family culture.
You see learning and relationships differently. Now you want to live those values more fully in real family life.
Screens. Boundaries. Competing needs. A partner who sees things differently. A child asking for something you’re unsure about. Some situations don’t have one right answer.
DISCERN combines coaching, nervous-system regulation, real-life practice, and culture-creation tools to help you stop searching outside yourself for every answer. You’ll learn to stay connected to what matters, make choices you can stand behind, and build a family life that reflects your values.
YOU GET:
FREEDOM TO LEARN
Understand how children learn through curiosity, autonomy, relationships, play, and real life.
COMMUNICATION THAT TRANSFORMS RELATIONSHIPS
Communicate in ways that create more understanding, emotional safety, and connection — especially when needs collide.
12 Group Coaching Sessions
Bring the real situations and difficult decisions you’re facing and work through them with Sari, Becka, and the group.
The Embodiment Labs & Replays
Access six live practice sessions, and turn what you understand intellectually into something you can actually access and live when things get hard with your child.
Connect-Up
Create shared ways of communicating, making decisions, navigating competing needs, and shaping your family culture.
The Discernment Lab
Practice looking beneath the obvious answers and deciding what fits your child, family, and circumstances.
The Practitioner’s Toolkit
Access practical tools for navigating complex situations in your family.
The Discern Video Library
Explore conversations about homeschooling, unschooling, relationships, learning, and questions that don’t fit neatly into a course.
+ SIX MONTHS OF COMMUNITY SUPPORT
Join six monthly live community calls to connect, ask questions, reflect, and think through what’s coming up for your family. Replays are included.
Real change doesn’t happen because you read one more parenting book.
It happens when you have space to question, practice, reflect, and work through what’s actually happening in your family.
Imagine feeling more secure in the path you’ve chosen. More able to stay connected when things get hard. More confident making choices based on what your child and family actually need.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
That’s what we’re building together inside Un-Skool.
Creating a different future starts with relating differently.
Less fear.
Less pressure around learning.
Less conflict.
More trust, confidence, and connection.
Because the relationship you build today shapes the adult your child becomes.
You don’t need another person telling you the right way to parent or homeschool. You need the understanding, practice, and support to create the family life you chose this path for.
Frequently Asked Questions About Un-Skool
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Un-Skool is Radical Learning’s online space for parents questioning conventional schooling and exploring homeschooling, unschooling, self-directed learning, and more relationship-centered ways of living with young people.
Un-Skool helps you let go of fear, pressure, and second-guessing so you can build more trust, connection, confidence, and joy with your child... and create a family life that feels good to live.
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No. Un-Skool is for parents whose children are in school, leaving school, homeschooling, unschooling, or somewhere in between. You don’t need to have chosen a label or decided exactly what your path will look like.
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Many families in our community are raising neurodivergent children or are neurodivergent themselves. We don’t offer one method every family is expected to follow. We help you consider your particular child, needs, relationships, and circumstances.
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The level of access depends on how you join.
The monthly membership, BUILD, and GROUND include monthly live community calls.
GROUND and DISCERN also include 6 monthly Embodiment Practice Labs.
And DISCERN includes 12 bi-weekly group coaching sessions.
Individual support is available separately.
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It’s both.
You can join the community and access introductory resources for free, choose the optional $27/month membership, or join BUILD, GROUND, or DISCERN for a deeper six-month experience.