Real questions. Honest support. A different perspective on life with kids.
For years, parents have brought us their hardest questions about learning, family life, big emotions, and doing things differently with kids.
Dear Sari & Becka is our weekly advice column, where we offer honest support, compassionate perspective, and the occasional loving reality check.
How Dear Sari & Becka works
1. Send us your anonymous question.
The messy ones. The hard ones. The ones you keep carrying.
2. Check your inbox every Friday.
One question. Honest support. A radically different perspective.
Compassion first | Honesty always | Different perspective | You’re not alone
Your anonymous space for the messy questions about parenting, learning, school, family life — and everything in between.
Dear Sari & Becka...
…AM I RUINING MY CHILD?
School says my kid is behind, unmotivated, and needs more structure. I feel torn between trusting my instincts and fearing I’m making the wrong decisions.
…WHY DOES EVERYTHING BECOME A BATTLE?
Mornings, homework, bedtime, basic requests — it all turns into conflict. What am I missing?
…IS MY KID LAZY?
They seem unmotivated, resistant, and uninterested in learning. I don’t know whether to push harder or back off.
…MY PARTNER THINKS I’M TOO SOFT.
I want less control and more connection, but my partner thinks kids need firmer boundaries and consequences. Help.
…SCHOOL SAYS MY KID IS THE PROBLEM.
But something in me isn’t convinced. How do I know what’s really going on?
Sari & Becka
Hey, it’s us — Sari & Becka. We know what it’s like to wonder, “What am I missing?” when life with kids feels hard.
As unschooling mamas to neurodivergent kids — and through years of supporting other parents — we bring both lived and professional perspective.
Dear Sari & Becka is our weekly space for honest support and the occasional loving reality check.
